How Many Dates Before You “Give It Up”?

By C. Michael Forsyth

In my younger days, a frequent subject of debate was whether a girl should kiss on the first date. Nowadays there are many young ladies who signal that a first date has gone well by going all the way. I’m certain that they are in the minority. But that leaves a question. Just how many dates – or how much time should pass – before you have sex?  Reply below.


Men are notoriously shallow in choosing the women they pursue. Physical attributes such as full lips, big breasts and long legs often take precedence over a lady’s character. But are women any better? Many are drawn to a man because of his job or wealth, traits that are also superficial. Who do you think is really more shallow?